A New Wedding

February 18, 2022 Joy Brown

A New Wedding

When Sarge & I met, he had a 3 yr old daughter from a previous relationship & I had a 3 yr old daughter from a previous relationship. They were 5 when we got married and I had a bonus daughter...woot woot.

My daughter instantly had a sister & I didn't have to go through that labor lol. I used to dress them alike and people would ask if they were twins.

I had to always explain our mini Brady Bunch story to clear up how we had two 5 yr olds that weren't really twins. Later Sarge & I had 2 kids together, so we used to say, 'the big kiddies and the little kiddies.'

Well my bonus baby got engaged recently!!! They are planning to get married next year on Aug 22nd... which was our wedding date (how cools is that?) Lately, I started to think...

I literally feel like I just graduated high school like last week. It's this kiddies growing up that reminds me that ummmmm maybe it was a little more than a week ago.

I guess time flies when you're having fun and I am surely having fun.

But I'm also thinking of priorities.

I believe marriage should be one of the highest priorities.

When I am not prioritizing my marriage I feel stressed, chaotic & overwhelmed.

How do you know when you are prioritizing something?

You are giving it a sufficient amount of time, attention & care.

For instance, lately since we've launched the R3 Method app, it's taken lots of my time developing & perfecting the project.

Towards the end of the project, the most random & weird circumstances kept happening to me that felt toxic. When a series of unfortunate events like, flat tires, lost keys, forgotten appts or shredded fingers (yes, I accidentally shredded my thumb along with the freakin' carrot) happen around the same time frame, that means your priorities are out of whack.

Once I stood back and paid attention I immediately did a urgent re-prioritization. Once everything was put back in order to match my priorities, amazing situations presented themselves versus unfortunate events.

Ask yourself what your top 5 priorities are and then do an honest assessment if you are dividing your time, attention & care to those areas accordingly.

BOOK RECOMMENDATION: Power Of A Praying Wife

Since marriage is my highest priority, I start reading & speaking this book when I find myself all over the place.

I was reading it this morning and she mentioned how sex is not a want for men but an actual NEED. She mentioned how you're leaving your relationship open to temptation if you withhold sex from your husband for weeks, months or years.

I understood that message along time ago & made a pact with myself to honor it, but I see some women struggle in that area. If they work, raise kiddies, triple C (Cook/Clean/Calm) the home or all of the above, the may find it difficult to prioritize.

She mentioned when you prioritize sex, he will prioritize your needs, desires, care and support by default.

So how do you prioritize sex?

In my opinion, it's about making sure you have an amazing diet & supplements that enhance energy...cultivating your self-care & Feminine prowess & making it a fun & romantic.

So remember why you got married in the 1st place. Communicate & text like you're 18. I don't know about you ladies, but my man knows that we talk or text business, family, present, future & flirt all throughout the day 1st. There is no such thing as complete silence all day and then coming into the bedroom with your pants down. I'd be like what the what lolololol! I am a queen that expects to be wood for life. So fellas get to wooing and ladies get to seducing your man tonight.

p.s. In case you're experiencing sexual dysfunction, I have always recommended 2 natural supplements that's on the market. I can't stand their cheesy names, but they work like freakin' magic.

For Men: Man Fuel
For Women: Female Fuzion

*You can just look them up online or on Amazon. They are both in liquid form.

*Update* My R3 Hot & Ready Therapeutic Tea has now launched for women too!
-Joy

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